S09E05 · EP 199
season 9 · 2002-10-31
The One With Phoebe's Birthday Dinner
written by Scott Silveri · directed by David Schwimmer · 24.46M viewers · image Friends Wiki (CC BY-SA)

Episode DNA

20 scenes · 4 threads
awkward 15%social rule violation 13%absurd 9%angry 8%cheerful 8%tense 8%deadpan 6%scheme 5%petty grievance 4%obsession 4%

Story threads over runtime

click a block to open the scene
0:005:0010:0015:0020:00
A · Phoebe's birthday dinner
B · Chandler's smoking relapse
C · Rachel's separation anxiety
D · Monica's baby plan
01

Every scene

20 scenes · our breakdown
1 · Monica and Chandler's apartment · act1Planning Phoebe's birthday dinner

Phoebe reschedules her birthday dinner to Thursday, and the friends discuss who will attend.

00:01–01:47scheme · social_rule_violation
2 ▸ 01:47
2 · Office in Tulsa · act1Chandler learns Oklahoma smoking law

Chandler discovers smoking is legal in small offices and gives in to temptation.

01:47–03:15social_rule_violation
3 · Monica and Chandler's apartment · act1Monica prepares for ovulation

Monica plans to conceive with Chandler before dinner, but Phoebe visits.

03:15–05:00scheme · seduction
4 · Monica and Chandler's apartment · act1Chandler confesses smoking

Chandler admits to smoking heavily, and Monica gets upset.

05:00–06:10confession · escalation
5 · Ross and Rachel's apartment hallway · act1Rachel refuses to leave Emma

Rachel is anxious about leaving Emma for the first time, and Ross tries to push her out.

06:10–07:44avoidance · misunderstanding
6 ▸ 07:44
6 · Fancy restaurant · act1Joey and Phoebe wait at restaurant

Joey and Phoebe are hungry and annoyed as friends are late.

07:44–08:29social_rule_violation · petty_grievance
7 ▸ 08:29
7 · Monica and Chandler's apartment · act2Monica forbids smoking, demands sex

Monica and Chandler fight about smoking, then Monica demands sex for ovulation.

08:29–10:08seduction
8 ▸ 10:08
8 · Ross and Rachel's apartment hallway · act2Ross and Rachel locked out, panic

Ross and Rachel are locked out and imagine disasters happening to Emma.

10:08–11:34obsession
9 ▸ 11:34
9 · Fancy restaurant · act2Joey and Phoebe move to smaller table

Joey and Phoebe reluctantly move to a smaller table at the restaurant.

11:34–13:08social_rule_violation · petty_grievance
10 · Monica and Chandler's apartment · act2Monica tricks Chandler into sex

Monica pretends to forgive Chandler to get him into bed for ovulation.

13:08–14:09scheme · lie
11 · Ross and Rachel's apartment · act2Rachel refuses to leave Emma again

Rachel vows never to leave Emma after the lockout scare.

14:09–15:04avoidance · obsession
12 · Monica and Chandler's apartment · act2Monica reveals trick, Chandler feels used

Monica admits she tricked Chandler into sex, causing another fight.

15:04–15:36betrayal · scheme
13 ▸ 15:36
13 · Fancy restaurant · act2Joey orders food, friends arrive

Joey finally orders, but Ross and Rachel arrive, delaying the order.

15:36–16:44social_rule_violation · petty_grievance
14 ▸ 16:44
14 · Fancy restaurant · act2Ross and Rachel explain lateness

Ross and Rachel explain they got locked out, and Rachel brought Emma and Judy.

16:44–17:43misunderstanding · social_rule_violation
15 ▸ 17:43
15 · Fancy restaurant · act2Monica and Chandler arrive fighting

Monica and Chandler arrive at the restaurant still arguing about the trick.

17:43–17:55social_rule_violation
16 ▸ 17:55
16 · Fancy restaurant · act3Rachel obsesses over Emma's sock

Rachel interrupts Phoebe's toast to worry about Emma's dropped sock.

17:55–19:42obsession · social_rule_violation
17 ▸ 19:42
17 · Fancy restaurant · act3Phoebe explodes at friends

Phoebe angrily calls out her friends for ruining her birthday dinner.

19:42–20:20social_rule_violation · petty_grievance
18 · Fancy restaurant · act3Phoebe leaves with Mike

Phoebe gets a call from Mike and leaves the dinner to be with him.

20:20–22:38coincidence · social_rule_violation
19 ▸ 22:38
19 · Fancy restaurant · act3Ross and Rachel leave, Joey alone

Ross and Rachel leave with Emma, and Joey is left alone at the restaurant.

22:38–23:06social_rule_violation · petty_grievance
20 · Fancy restaurant · tagJoey enjoys all the food

Joey eats all the ordered food and gets a birthday song from the staff.

23:06–23:10comeuppance · social_rule_violation
03

Same DNA

nearest episodes by gene profile

Episode facts

Wikipedia · Wikidata
Aired
2002-10-31
Overall
#199
Writers
Scott Silveri
Director
David Schwimmer
Viewers
24.46M (US)
Pace
127 words/min · 114 questions

Where to watch

sponsored
TV
Stream all 10 seasonsWhere it's streaming now · JustWatch
Find
BD
The Complete SeriesBlu-ray / DVD box set
Shop
EP
The One With Phoebe's Birthday DinnerDigital purchase
Buy
Links may earn SceneClip a commission. Illustrative availability.

In this episode

PB
Phoebe Buffay232 episodes · drives 425 scenes
RG
Rachel Greene232 episodes · drives 552 scenes
RG
Ross Geller232 episodes · drives 707 scenes
MG
Monica Geller232 episodes · drives 572 scenes
CB
Chandler Bing232 episodes · drives 527 scenes
JT
Joey Tribbiani232 episodes · drives 536 scenes
JG
Judy Geller32 episodes · drives 1 scenes