S10E12 · SCENE 12/23 · 16:12
The One With Phoebe's Wedding · Rachel's apartment
Chandler convinces Rachel to pick him

Chandler convinces Rachel to pick him as the groomsman by playing on her sympathy.

16:12→17:21
in the episode · 1m 09s · S10E12

What happens

16:12–17:21

Chandler pleads with Rachel, telling her about his childhood insecurities of being left out. Rachel, feeling sorry for him, agrees to pick him.

WhereRachel's apartment
DriverChandler
Positionact2 · complication
ThreadWedding planning chaos

Key lines

from this scene
16:54

I mean, this guy would strike out and then run to third.

17:01

Anyway, if I'm the only one left out of this wedding I just know that all those feelings are gonna come rushing back.

17:15

Make "groom" for Chandler.

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Scene DNA

weights 0–1
petty grievance1.0
awkward1.0
tender1.0
monologue

Beats

16:38Chandler tells Rachel about being left out as a kid.
17:10Rachel agrees to pick Chandler.

Scene in the episode

16:12–17:21
A · Wedding planning chaos
B · Finding a father figure
C · Groomsmen competition

Clips from this episode

fan uploads · YouTube · matched by frame
Includes this scene · FRIENDS 10 12 Who is going to be a groomsman · best of
Friends: The prep talk between Joey-the new stepdad and Mike-the groom-to-be · Friends Funny Moment
Friends Season 10 Episode 12: The One with Phoebe's Wedding Deleted Scenes · Friends Clips
Phoebe Asks Joey To Walk Her Down the Aisle | Friends · Friends
Phoebe's Wedding | Friends · Friends
FRIENDS [HD] - Phoebe's Wedding Rehearsal · UberDurable
Phoebe's Wedding Planner Drives Her Crazy | Friends · Friends
Friends "Phoebe's Wedding" · XxRNav yxX (TJH1993)

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Chandler Bing232 episodes · drives 527 scenes
RG
Rachel Greene232 episodes · drives 552 scenes

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