S10E12 · SCENE 9/23 · 13:03
The One With Phoebe's Wedding · Rachel's apartment
Ross and Chandler plead with Rachel

Ross and Chandler separately plead with Rachel to be chosen as the groomsman.

13:03→14:02
in the episode · 0m 59s · S10E12
Ross and Chandler plead with Rachel

What happens

13:03–14:02

Ross and Chandler each visit Rachel to lobby for the groomsman spot. Ross argues he is the lesser of two evils, and Rachel agrees to pick him.

WhereRachel's apartment
DriverRoss
Positionact2 · escalation
ThreadWedding planning chaos

Key lines

from this scene
13:11

I'm not gonna watch Chandler up there while I'm in the seats like some chump.

13:19 · ★ iconic

My God, you're breathtaking.

13:34

I'm not. I'm making it easier. Pick me.

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Scene DNA

weights 0–1
rivalry1.0
negotiation1.0
tense1.0
awkward1.0
argument

Beats

13:28Ross asks Rachel to pick him.
13:53Rachel says Ross is the lesser of two evils.

Scene in the episode

13:03–14:02
A · Wedding planning chaos
B · Finding a father figure
C · Groomsmen competition

Clips from this episode

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Includes this scene · FRIENDS 10 12 Who is going to be a groomsman · best of
Includes this scene · Friends Season 10 Episode 12: The One with Phoebe's Wedding Deleted Scenes · Friends Clips
Friends: The prep talk between Joey-the new stepdad and Mike-the groom-to-be · Friends Funny Moment
Phoebe Asks Joey To Walk Her Down the Aisle | Friends · Friends
Phoebe's Wedding | Friends · Friends
FRIENDS [HD] - Phoebe's Wedding Rehearsal · UberDurable
Phoebe's Wedding Planner Drives Her Crazy | Friends · Friends
Friends "Phoebe's Wedding" · XxRNav yxX (TJH1993)

Who's in it

RG
Ross Geller232 episodes · drives 707 scenes
CB
Chandler Bing232 episodes · drives 527 scenes
RG
Rachel Greene232 episodes · drives 552 scenes

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